I don’t know if it just me

January 23, 2017

I don't know if it's just me

Well you have to let me know if you feel the same

I can't stand DRAMA! It literally drains me and truly just don't have time for it. But weird enough women thrive off of it. They seems to actually like drama-filled lives. They seems to find joy and entertainment in it. Whether its male induced drama or petty situations that really make no sense.

But like I said it may just be me. It really hurts my heart seeing women fight each other. Like seriously ladies? We are on the SAME team. If anything let's go against these males who can't seem to understand our worth. That's why the H in H.E.E.L.S stand for HARMONY .One of my strengths based on this strengthsfinder test I took was harmony. I never realized it until then that I find little to be gained from conflict and friction.

Moving right along, harmony is the one thing that will get us where we need to go. The one thing that will ensure we see being a woman as a blessing and not a curse. Don't get me wrong, I know you won't get along with every single female you come into contact with. Some of us are really a handful; whether we know it or not. But harmony isn't about being best friends it's about cohesiveness, oneness and in agreement. So I know I've been stressing that harmony is one of the ways to make womanhood full of blessings. I also know you may be thinking what exactly are we coming into agreement on? What are we being harmonious about? There are a lot of things we can come together and say we will do but  in regards to womanhood and harmony it's pretty simple:

1. When other women hold differing views, you can find common ground.

2. When other women are going on about their goals, their concerns and claims and fervently held opinions, you just hold your peace.

3. When other women start to argue about petty theory or concept, you can steer clear of the debate. Talk about more down to earth practical matters that you can all agree.

I don't know if it's just me,but all the bickering and division just isn't necessary. I don't know if it's just me, but I love being a woman and being able to share with other women. I don't know if it's me, but harmony could be one of the answers to enjoying every bit of womanhood.

 

Signed,

The Little Lady who hopes it's not just her

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